Welcome to Reverent Relational Therapy

Support for Those Who Care Deeply—and Need Care, Too

Therapy for Individuals and Couples
in Portland and Online throughout Oregon

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You’re always taking care of others.
But who’s taking care of you?

You anticipate needs, smooth things over, and show up—even when you're running on empty. You pride yourself on being reliable, supportive, and deeply invested in your relationships. But somewhere along the way, your own needs got lost in the mix.

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You might be feeling stretched thin, constantly managing other people’s emotions while silencing your own.

Maybe your thoughts race at night, your patience runs low, or you notice a quiet ache for something more—but you’re not even sure what that “more” is. The joy, the clarity, the sense of you feels buried under the weight of responsibility.

If you're a people-pleaser, a rock for others, or a perfectionist, you know what it’s like to be overwhelmed by responsibility, weighed down by anxiety, or unsure of who you are outside of your role to others and what you can do for them.

At Reverent Relational Therapy, I support people like you in healing the roots of over-functioning and emotional caretaking so that you can gain the clarity needed to reclaim your life.

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You Deserve a Space That’s Yours

You may be:

Saying "yes" when you want to say "no"—and feeling resentful, drained, or invisible
Navigating the identity-shifting terrain of parenthood or another major life transition
Carrying the emotional weight of others—family, partners, patients—and wondering when it's your turn to feel cared for

You’re not too much —you’re carrying more than most. And therapy can help.

How I Work

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Kasey Joffe is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist

Kasey Joffe, LPC, LMFT

You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin.

My approach is warm, collaborative, and attuned to the parts of you that feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unseen. In our work together, I create a space where all of you is welcome—especially the parts that have spent years people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, or carrying the emotional load for others.

Whether you're healing past wounds, navigating relationship dynamics, or working to reconnect with your sense of self, my work is grounded in trauma-informed care and a strong belief in the healing power of authentic connection.

In our work together, you’ll find a space that honors your experience, supports you in rewriting the internal stories that no longer serve you, and helps you build new ways of relating—to yourself and to others—with more compassion and connection.

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